Baby #2: 21 week update



Over half way cooked is baby #2. I haven’t done a pregnancy post since 14 weeks, which you can read here. I didn’t want to go over the same things too often. So first thing is first, we had a private gender scan done at 16 weeks as we were even more eager to know the sex of baby #2, weird as we never even had the urge for a private gender scan on our first baby. As you’ve probably guessed by the image above, we are having a girl! Although we secretly wanted a boy (does that make me bad for saying that?) we weren’t disheartened or upset that we were having another girl – all we care about is making sure baby is healthy and safe! The idea of my little B being a big sister makes me super happy too, she’s going to have such a lovely bond with baby hopefully.

So I thought I’d have a little rant, would I really be pregnant if I wasn’t a bit cranky. Anyway, before we found out the sex, the thing that really annoyed me was people constantly saying ‘oh you’ll have a girl, I can’t see you with a boy, you can always try again, you’ll have all girls’ and things like that. Okay, like I said it would be nice to have one of each but the fact I have been blessed with another daughter is amazing! I don’t know why people feel the need to say oh you’ll have to try again, like having 2 girls is a bad thing? Boy or girl, being pregnant is a wonderful and lucky experience that not everyone gets to go through – having two children of the same sex isn’t a ‘never mind’ moment. I suppose it’s like people giving you unwanted pregnancy advice, hormones run high on all matters I think! Moving on….

How Far Gone: 21+2

Know the Gender: Another little princess!

Cravings:  Actually don’t think I have anything in particular. I just feel my appetite is better, I’m hungry more often.

How are we feeling: To be honest, I still don’t think it’s really sunk it. We still haven’t bought anything (and for an usually organised me this is out of character). I think we are just focusing on Christmas and B’s birthday before Baby Fever takes over. With having a 22 month old, we don’t have much time to sit and dwell on things. We can’t imagine life with another little one – very surreal.

Have you got a Bump and Feeling anything yet? I’m naturally small, being 5ft3 and 8 stone pre-pregnancy, I have a slim figure normally. So I’ve had a bump for a while now. But this past week it seems to have just became a bit more ‘pregnant’ and rounder. I feel lots of kicks and movements at night time mostly, but will get the odd thing through the day. It’s truly amazing still!

How are you Sleeping? Not too bad. I mean I’m now starting to need to put the pillow under my belly when I’m on my side, but I’m never ‘uncomfortable’. Starting to wake for a wee a little more than usual too – but since I suffered PGP in my first pregnancy, this is a breeze.

Names you like:  Not the foggiest. It took us weeks to give our first daughter a name. For some reason we struggle finding girls names we like. Boys are a doddle, but I bet that’s always the way. We like very normal, traditional names. Nothing like Ocean-Breeze or Rain-Cloud-Mae although no offence to anyone who has these, they just aren’t us.

Birth Worries/Plan:  My first labour was an amazing experience. I was in the hospital for a total of 6 hours, had B after 4 hours of being in. I didn’t have stitches or pain relief. I’m hoping for the second labour to be like this – but my worry is they are going to be polar opposites. My plan really is to just stay calm, focus and let what is going to happen happen. It hurts either way so may as well try to embrace it. Eeek.

How did you find your second pregnancy in comparison to your first? Was labour what you expected/remembered the second time around?

4 thoughts on “Baby #2: 21 week update

  1. mindfultreemama

    I’m going to follow your journey, as we’ll be having kiddos within a few months of each other! This is my first, but also a little girl!

    Your birth plan/worries section has comforted me. As there’s not much we can control about it, I have chucked out my mental birth plan and am going to go with the flow and try to stay calm myself. Natural? Perfect. But it might not be so. And I have a feeling my state of mind in pain is going to be different as I sit here comfortably typing. So it’s nice to read that someone else is taking it easy on themselves, too, not having too many rigid expectations but also hoping for the best.

    Best of luck in the upcoming weeks and months. Congrats on another little lady 🙂 Can’t wait to come back and read more!


  2. I hated people in general when I was pregnant. Bugged the flipping foo foo out of me everytime someone made a remark on the sex ( I have 2 girls, too ). What bothered me most were the comments afterwards: “Naaw, next time it´ll surely be a boy.” And I´m here thinking “BURN!” As if having 2 girls was a bad thing. “Your surname will die out.” HAHA * face palm * “I bet your husband is bummed that you didn´t have a boy.” Baby, husbutt is such a happy camper with the witches. He wouldn´t want it any other way. I know now from your newest post that you´ve already had your baby girl 🙂 ❤ So happy for you.

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