Friends is a considerable love of both mine and hub-to-be. They never get tiring to watch. It’s a series that make viewers smile, laugh, cry and ultimately feel how the characters do. We want to be them, be Friends with them and have a coffee shop as cool as Central Perk to hang in.
I’m sure many of you have a favourite Friends character or episode or saying. Recently, Comedy Central ran a public twitter poll wanting to find out the nations favourite Friend (UK) and the winner was….Ross Geller. The geeky dinosaur loving, divorce having, ‘we were on a break’ saying palaeontologist. It got me thinking about how all the characters can connect with us in some way – even if you have an undeniable favourite.
Phoebe – the free spirited, life loving blonde who makes us feel happy with her quirky spirit. One of the things that truly stays with me about Phoebe is how she is able to absorb my thoughts over if there truly is a selfless deed (In The One Where Phoebe Hates PBS). Even though she is the ‘uncomplicated’ character, she really does provoke us to deliberate the deeper meanings of things. No matter what life throws at her (the suicide of her mother, death of her grandma, abandonment of her father, estrangement from her twin sister are just a few of the minor events she has experienced to say the least) she is most definitely the merry, uplifting Friend. She allows us to see that yes, life can be cruel and unexpected but it doesn’t have to define you. And we can all learn a lot from her. On your down days, just think what would Phoebe do?
Ross – the nerdy, palaeontologist father of two. Ross is pretty logical. The episode The One With The Lottery sees the group convinced they are going to win the lottery (thanks to Phoebes positive outlook again) but Ross is the only friend who brings logic into it. Even when he later gets involved, he chooses to spend his money in the most sensible way out of them all. Ross reminds us that it’s okay to be smart, to like things that are different to others (he’s forever being teased for his passion of dinosaurs and science) but also reminds us that you can be overwhelmed and slightly dumbfounded by love no matter how logical about life you are – (I’m sure we are all aware of his undiminished love for Rachel and the decisions he made when with Emily).
Monica – the organised, clean freak with a passion for cooking. Monica is super competitive and has such a drive about her. Whether that’s from going to overweight to super sensual or achieving her dream job as a chef. She shown to be the most overpowering and controlling one out of the group, almost having this constant need to be liked (as shown In The One With All The Candy) but all this is easily forgotten about in her quest to find love and start a family. Monica is mothering, caring and attentive. She shows us that no matter how organised and efficient you like things to be – sometimes life happens, you can’t control it and you need to deal with things in a way you hadn’t planned for. She also inspires us to be a little more organised and competitive – having a get up and go attitude as strong as hers can’t be a bad thing. Don’t follow her plan to make jam after her Richard break up though!
Joey – the food loving, flirty friend, who seems to be the least organised but most loving of the bunch. Joey teaches us to enjoy and embrace life, even when you have no idea where it’s going. Many a time we see Joey in need of help from his best pal Chandler, going round in circles in his career choice and never committing to a relationship (for too long anyway). Its how many of us see our life at times. Finances suffering and our career moving leisurely BUT we never see Joey in a tiff or low about it. Instead he teaches us to pass every bridge as you come to it, have a heart as big as your tummy and live to eat (rather than eat to live).
Rachel – the once immature, spoiled girl turned independent fashionista mummy. Rachel most definitely teaches us about independence. In the very first episode we see her abandon all she was ‘supposed’ to be. She jumps into a world that is unknown to her, and we see her struggle with the adjustment at times (like in The One With George Stephanopoulos, which see’s her end the episode realising she has ‘magic beans’). Rachel goes from spoilt daughter to coffee waitress to exceeding in the world of fashion. She teaches us you have to work where to get where you want to be and that life can be tough, she teaches us that even when life is going well and the unexpected happens (like her pregnancy to on/off love Ross) that change can be good.
Chandler – the whimsical, sarcastic child of erotic writer and gay superstar. Chandler is without a doubt the one who has the biggest guard out of the group. He frequently reminds us that comedy is his defence mechanism. He teaches us that we are human and we make mistakes. We see him kiss his best friend’s girlfriend after discovering he has feelings for her, his best friend’s sister after getting too drunk, we see him freak out and go AWOL before his wedding, we see him make a bold career move and quit his job to rekindle and find his passion and we see him have a constant battle with smoking. Throughout the series Chandler reminds us that it’s okay to be human and that it’s okay to make mistakes.
There you have it. A quick round up and insight into how I think each Friends character can teach us something – I could go on and on and on. Oh and by the way my favourite Friend is Chandler!
I LOVE friends, but hubby hates it (boohoo) I too love how when you break the characters down there is something we can all learn from and utilise in everyday life.
I must say I think my favourite episode was the one where no one is ready “could I be wearing anymore clothes???”
#mmbc
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I don’t even know if I could name my favourite episode. But I love the one you said, especially when Phoebe has that big tinsel decoration over her stained dress :-)! Thanks for coming for a read x
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Love this. I love Friends, it was and always will be my favourite TV show! Far too many parts of my brain are used up by having (unintentionally) memorised whole episodes!! 🙂
And Chandler has always been my favourite! (God I miss it….)
#bigpinklink
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Oh I’m forever using Friends quotes. Think people get a little annoyed haha. Thanks for reading 🙂 now I’m off to cry that they won’t make a movie hehe! x
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Aww I love friends! Can definitely learn something from each character, my favourite is Ross haha x
Tiffany x http://www.foodandotherloves.co.uk
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Used to watch Friends all the time – good memories! Fun read through 🙂
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Thanks x
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I love friends! constantly watch it and im pretty sure my little girl has seen an episode every day since she was born! 😀😀 really love this post! #bigpinklink
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Oh yes my girl probably has the quotes embedded way down deep from pregnancy haha. Thanks for reading xx
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I loved Friends and now my teenage daughter has discovered it and loves it too.I have discovered that I am still in love with Chandler Bing..swoon 😉 #MMBC
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Who does love Chandler? He is amazing! X
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Ah I miss Friends. It used to be on all the time but I haven’t seen it for ages! x #bigpinklink
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We have the DVD set and it’s always on Comedy Central but you can’t beat the days it used to air. Thanks for the comment x
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All my life lessons were learned from FRIENDS, and I could still quite happily watch it over and over again. I think we all have a bit of each character inside of us. Thanks for linking up to #MarvMondays. Kaye xo
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Oh definitely. Never gets old, every character is golden. Except Charlie. And Emily. They can not be in it. Tut! See you next week 🙂 x
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I miss Friends so much! Thanks Netflix for giving it to us again. My favourite is Phoebe, definitely. She’s hilarious.
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I do a lot of Phoebe quotes. She’s just so free x
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I absolutely love friends even though I haven’t watched it in a long time! I personally think I’m a mix between Monica and Ross
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Monica really makes me laugh but more towards the end seasons when she’s full on cleaning obsessed etc. Thanks for commenting 🙂 x
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Rachel and Chandler are my absolute faves! x
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I like all of them but some more than others. Got it on as I type now 🙂 thanks for coming x
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I knew I was going to love this post from reading the title! I love Friends and this is such a good post idea, this cheered me right up! Oh and I love love love Phoebe she’s my favorite, so positive! Great post! Sarah xoxo
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Thanks for coming over to comment. I think Phoebe is my close favourite too. She just really makes me giggle :-)! x
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This is great!! Never thought of a post like this but I love it! Pheobe is my favourite always- she’s def the most like me!!! Thanks for sharing x
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Phoebe is definitely my favourite of the girls, but I really like Monica towards the end of the show too when she is full on control freak. They are completely different aren’t they! Thanks for coming to visit 🙂 x
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It’s got to be Phoebe hands down right? Definitely need to be more like her on the bad days. Thanks for the post 😀 xx
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She is a great character, so much light and love! Thanks for taking the time to read x
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I miss that show! I always loved the whole idea of having a close group of friends like that that were so different, I always loved Monica and hated Rachel. #bigpinklink
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I have my moments with Rachel. Ross and her were 100% on a break though. Thanks for coming over for a read. X
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I love friends! I think Rachel is my favourite but to be honest I love them all! #MMBC
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Definitely love all of them. And Rachel gets funnier as the show goes on. Thanks for reading x
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Hahaha…yeah each character is interesting and their dynamic together really make the show…And yes! Chandler is my fave too! Why did it have to end?:( #globalBlogging
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It makes me sad thinking about it. Thanks for reading x
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Monica has always been my favourite I feel like I relate to her the most don’t know if that is a good thing or bad thing #GlobalBlogging
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I love Monica too. I can relate to her as well. We will take it as a good thing! Thanks for coming over x
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I LOVE friends. I need to re-watch it all! And Ross won? Ross? Really?! That surprises me! Team Joey all the way! 🙂 Thanks for joining us at the #bigpinklink
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I think I have a different favourite everyday. Such a classic show! Thanks for reading x
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Oh I remember High School evenings every Wednesday eagerly awaiting each program. I even sported the “Rachel” look for a while… I’m definitely a Monica. :).. Thanks for linking up with #globalblogging, hope to see you next week! xx
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We all have a bit of each in us I think. Monica is classic towards the end. Thanks for having me! X
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Oh I loved Friends what a great show it was growing up. You’ve brought back some garret immerse here and yes it is true those qualities they had can teach us lots! #globalblogging (from Australia)
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It’s such a deep show. Well I like to think haha! (Thanks for reading) xx
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Hi Lex, I can’t choose between Chandler, Joey, or Pheobe as my favourite. I love all their dizziness…. One major lesson learned has to be not to use talc or cream to try and pull up your leather trousers!
Thank you for linking up with the #MMBC.
xx
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Oh couldn’t agree with you more. No one wants a paste! Thanks x
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Love this, I am also a Chandler fan! This show is amazing, it’s still going almost 20 years later. What is your Twitter account I would love to share this? Thanks for stopping by at #GlobalBlogging!
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Oh thank you so much for your lovely comments it’s @nomanualtomum
You simply cannot beat chandler. I watch an episode a day at least. Never gets boring! X
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I love friends and I LOVE Chandler – if I had to pick someone I was most like it would be him. I am funny (tooting my own horn here haha) but I also use that as a defense mechanism as well… and when I’m uncomfortable I get weird… HELLOOO Chanandler Bong! ha! Love this post!
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Chandler is my favourite too. He is just so funny. Thanks for reading 🙂 you can beat a nice friends post x
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YESSS!! I absolutely adore friends and i agree with what you have written. Now I really want to sit and watch it…but I have to do work dammit hahaha
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You can’t beat an episode of Friends. They just make you feel good!
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I absolutely love Friends and this post as well!!! You said it all, thanks for sharing, that was a great read x
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